By: Andi Andrew
Gratitude is a lifestyle choice. We can choose to live our lives from a place of gratitude and thanksgiving or from a place of negativity, opinion, and circumstance. There is so much to be grateful for despite our personal situations or emotional state.
When my son 7-year-old son Jesse arrived back from Zimbabwe with Paul and me last year, he had a newfound gratitude for the food so bountifully placed on our family’s table. For him, being part of feeding programs for impoverished children while we were in Africa really opened his eyes. Many of these kids within the program only get one meal a day, and it’s a corn-based meal ground up into a porridge with peanut butter added for protein. When Jesse arrived home to hear his siblings complain about the food on the table, he immediately and innocently rebuked them.
“Guys, we should be grateful for any food that is placed before us to eat. Some kids in Africa—if they’re lucky—get one meal a day, and it’s not even that yummy. So we should be grateful no matter what, say thank you, and just eat.”
That silenced the kids from their complaining and they quietly began to eat. They’re still kids and at times don’t always love what we cook for dinner, but I’m no short order cook, so they get what they get. And when the whining and complaining sets in, we all look up to a photo framed on our wall of a little boy in Africa we met at “The Hideout,” an abandoned hotel where countless displaced families live. We remind ourselves and tell our “soul” once again to be grateful for what is placed before us!
Psalm 103:1–6 (NIV) says:
1 Praise the Lord, my soul;
all my inmost being, praise his holy name.
2 Praise the Lord, my soul,
and forget not all his benefits—
3 who forgives all your sins
and heals all your diseases,
4 who redeems your life from the pit
and crowns you with love and compassion,
5 who satisfies your desires with good things
so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.
6 The Lord works righteousness
and justice for all the oppressed.
It’s so easy to forget the benefits that God has given to us, so we’ve got to remind our souls what to do when we become downcast or negative. We are forgiven, healed, and redeemed from the pits of darkness and disgrace we were found in. We are crowned with His love and compassion from heaven. And it doesn’t stop there: God satisfies us with good things and renews our youth like the eagle. He works out the path of righteousness for our lives and brings justice! Hello! That is worth being grateful for no matter what the circumstances are. We need to get good at telling our circumstance to line up with the word of God! And most of the time we have to tell our souls, our inmost being, to line up with the word of God and praise Him because He is worthy whether we feel like it or not.
Charles Spurgeon wrote a beautiful exposition on verse one of Psalm 103. If you weren’t convinced of our need to choose to praise and give gratitude to God with all of our lives, may his words go deep into your spirit. May they cause you to rise up and give God all that you are—heart and soul. To praise Him all the days of your life no matter how you feel or what you see. He is worthy of our love, adoration, and gratitude.
“Bless the Lord O my soul. Soul music is the very soul of music. The Psalmist strikes the best keymote when he begins with stirring up his inmost self to magnify the Lord. He soliloquizes, holds self-communion and exhorts himself, as though he felt that dulness would all too soon steal over his faculties, as, indeed, it will over us all, unless we are diligently on the watch. Jehovah is worthy to be praised by us in that highest style of adoration which is intended by the term bless—”All thy works praise thee, O God, but thy saints shall bless thee.” Our very life and essential self should be engrossed with this delightful service, and each one of us should arouse his own heart to the engagement. Let others forbear if they can: “Bless the Lord, O MY soul.” Let others murmur, but do thou bless. Let others bless themselves and their idols, but do thou bless the LORD. Let others use only their tongues, but as for me I will cry, “Bless the Lord, O my soul.” And all that is within me, bless his holy name. Many are our faculties, emotions, and capacities, but God has given them all to us, and they ought all to join in chorus to his praise. Half-hearted, ill-conceived, unintelligent praises are not such as we should render to our loving Lord. If the law of justice demanded all our heart and soul and mind for the Creator, much more may the law of gratitude put in a comprehensive claim for the homage of our whole being to the God of grace.”